Category Archives - Marriage

Her Husband is Careless

January 9, 2023 - No Comments

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Should the wife apologise to the husband even if she did not do anything wrong & he is putting false accusations on her &

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I regret being the second wife.What should I do?

August 15, 2022 - One Comment

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I wish to congratulate you for the great help and teachings we are always receiving here, whether it pertains to new Muslims or getting

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I Want to do a Secret Nikah

August 10, 2022 - No Comments

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I am in love with a boy. Both of our family knows about it and they do not have any objections. We planned to

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Dealing with emotional trauma due to discovering my husband’s immoral conduct

July 26, 2022 - No Comments

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The problem I’m facing is my partner got involved with non-Muslim woman while I was away for a few months. He has repented for

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Mahr/ Marriage Gift

July 22, 2022 - No Comments

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I was wanting to know how would a girl decide what exactly or much money should she set as her mahr?
I would

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He makes me feel unwanted and undesired

June 8, 2022 - No Comments

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AA, Thank you for offering such a wonderful platform. May Allah reward you with goodness. I am a practicing muslim and so is my

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Husband does not acknowledge my efforts!

December 14, 2021 - No Comments

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I have been married for 8 years and was raised in a western country. I married a man who said he would immigrate but

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Marrying my best friends husband

October 25, 2021 - No Comments

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My best friend’s husband proposed marriage to me, I refused. Should I keep this a secret from her? we’ve been friends for 10 years

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Can both families split the cost of the Walima

September 19, 2021 - No Comments

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I would like to know when walima ceremony should be done? Is it alowed to held walima ceremony after few months of NIkah? We

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Can a woman spend ʿiddah outside of abusive husband’s home?

September 13, 2021 - No Comments

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Can a woman spend her Iddah outside of the husband’s home when he is physically abusive?
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In the Name of Allah, the Most

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Nurturing a healthy relationship

June 4, 2021 - One Comment

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I am married for almost a year.  I feel like most of the time my husband doesn’t really love me. He’s never affectionate, or

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Is it permissible to do the Nikah whilst on Haidh?

April 25, 2021 - No Comments

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On the day of nikah not marraige {widayi} if a girl is in her menstruation, will it affect her nikah…as i have heard that

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Discourses on Al-Ḥīlat al-Nājizah li l-Ḥalīlat al-‘Ājizah

March 3, 2021 - No Comments

Discourses on Al-Ḥīlat al-Nājizah li l-Ḥalīlat al-‘Ājizah
(The Effective Stratagem for the Helpless Wife)
By: Hadhrat Mufti Ebrahim Desai Sahib
Part #1 (24/02/21) –

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Spending Iddah at the abusive husbands home

February 17, 2021 - No Comments

Question:
Can a woman spend her Iddah outside of the husband’s home when he is physically abusive?
Answer:
In the Name of Allah, the Most

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Can a Widow remain unmarried?

October 10, 2020 - No Comments

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A young widow under 40 does not wish to marry after the death of her husband because she loved her late husband and would

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Looking for the Perfect Spouse!

July 10, 2020 - No Comments

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I am aware that in Shariah, watchingTV/programmes is forbidden. But today watching has become such a norm, whether it’s sport or business related programmes.

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Will I be entitled to Mahr?

March 27, 2020 - No Comments

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I have a question regarding mahr.
I recently asked my husband fro divorce as we have been seperated for over 4 years and he

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Christian female marrying a Muslim male

March 20, 2020 - No Comments

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I am a Christian woman and I am engaged to Sunni man. As far as I know, it is possible from religious side for

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Post-partum depression – What does one do?

January 18, 2020 - No Comments

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I have been blessed with Baby boy two months earlier. After one month of delivery, my wife started to suffer postpartum depression due to

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