Dealing with a Husband who does not give Attention

I have been married since years but no kids reason is my husband poor report but he didn’t do take any treatment which hurt me a lot ,
Second thing my marriage life is very bad my husband is not in mood always busy with his family like chatting or tweeting he does not care what I want some times I ask about my desire he refuse I m so tired etc , I talked many times about this matter when he is in good mood but nothing works I feel so lonely when I saw people around me mostly happy with there husband and kids my husband is good Muslim like pray 5 times , beard , no tv at home but I don’t know what to do my question is will I get reward in qaiyamah , some times I think i don’t want to live with him any more , I try my best do makeup for him , cook for him but nothing works he always making fun of me which hurts me a lot please guide me what should I do in this situation.


In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, The Most Merciful.

As-salaamu `alaykum wa-ramatullahi wa-barakatuh.

Sister in islam,

We take note of your unfortunate situation. May Allah grant you courage to overcome the challenges with your husband.

We advise you discuss your difficulties with your parents and his parents as well. You may also consider including any person who has influence over your husband. Your husband will begin to understand your frustration if he did not understand till now. You are overlooking his poor health due to which you are unable to conceive. He ought to appreciate you and be good to you. Do not allow him to overlook this gesture of yours. You also look after him in many ways. He needs to appreciate you. When you take the matter up with seniors of the family, we hope it will be a wake up call for him to behave and appreciate you.

We also advise you to seek the assistance of Allah with salaah, zikr and dua to change your husband’s attitude towards you.

And Allah Ta`ala Knows Best.

Checked and Approved by:

Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

Leave Yours +

No Comments

Leave a Reply

* Required Fields.
Your email will not be published.