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This forum serves to highlight some common marital problems and offer solutions to such problems.These problems have been personally witnessed and handled by Sheikh Mufti Ebrahim Desai (Hafizahullah) over a period of 18 years.



Which pain do you prefer?

It is part of a successful marriage that both spouses respect each other’s families and attend family functions, gatherings and get togethers etc.

In some instances the wife cannot let go of her family and expect her husband to join in all her family get togethers even if the husband is not comfortable. Such pressure on the husband eventually leads to family and marriage related problems.


It is therefore best to consider the comfort of your husband as well. While you may be disappointed at his non participation of your family functions, it is better than the negative consequences of his discomfort in participating in your family gatherings.

- Mufti Ebrahim Desai (Hafidhahullah)