Identify your marital problems-session 1

On Saturday –May 19, 2012, Hazrat Mufti Ebrahim Desai Saheb commenced a special series of discourses on Marital problems &solutions at Rockdale Muaadh Ibn Jabal Jamaat Khana,Westville-Durban.

Alhamdulillah,the gathering was very well attended and the women appreciated every bit of the advises.

Hazrat stated that he has 18 years of experience with marriage related issues and he felt the information he has is a trust and he had to share the experiences so that:

  1. 1.Broken marriages can be made up.
  2. 2.Stabilize troubled marriages.
  3. 3.Bring prosperity in happy marriages.
  4. 4.Serve as an eye opener for the unmarried.

Hazrat commenced his talk by expounding on the power of the union between the husband and wife. Billions of human beings are the consequence of just one couple,Adam (Alayhis Salaam) and Hawa (Alayhas Salaam).

You too are special and could be a mother of a nation.Dont look at yourself as just one person. You are a foundation of a future unknown nation.

Mufti Saheb further stated that a troubled marriage comes with grief, depression and even leads one to question the decree of Allah (azza wajal).

He expounded on some examples of marital disputes referred to in Al Quran and Hadith.Rasulullah Sallallāhu Alayhi Wasallam and the sahabah were human beings. They lived family lives and also experienced challenges in their family lives.We study their challenges and seek solutions from their experiences.

The purpose of marriage is Sukoon(peace).The two arms of which are-Love and compassion.

Mufti Saheb further explained that a Human being is a composition of opposites.

  • ~The right eye and left eye.
  • ~The right ear and left ear.
  • ~The head on top and the feet at the bottom.

But there is a unique co-operation between these opposites. When the right eye is sore, the left eye takes the strain. When the foot is sore, the head feels the discomfort.

Similarly,how can there be cooperation between two opposites-Male(Husband) and Female(Wife) who hail from different families and diverse backgrounds?

Every two things put together need an agent.

Two bricks need cement.

Two papers need glue.

What can cement and glue the husband and wife? All these issues are covered in the talk.

Listen to the talk here-Marital Discourses-May 19,2012 #1

Download the talk at the following link-

The follow up talk will be on: Saturday 26 may 2012

The issues for discussion the following week are: Identifying the actual problems in the marriage and the solutions.


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  1. Fatimah

    Kindly advise what time will be the follow up talk and is it in westville also. Jazakallaha

  2. U r doing go0d job
    kep it up

  3. Sister in Islam

    Shukran for sending the summary of the talk on Saturday. I was fortunate, Alhamdullilah, to have attended. I must applaud Mufti saheb for the wonderful initiative in tackling a subject which is causing so many homes to be broken in this day and age.

    I want to humbly compliment Mufti saheb for the very introspective knowledge of the subject and the manner in which he conveyed it. Alhamdullilah! The very manner of Mufti Sahebs presentation and reflections of the lives of the Sahaabis and the beautiful pattern of conduct of our Beloved Nabi Muhammad (SAW) had us enthralled and riveted that the time flew.

    If the warm up was so awe-inspiring then I can foresee some exciting yet educational discourses to follow.I look forward to the next sessions.

    I sincerely express my shukran to you for your wonderful work towards the propagation of Deen. The love for which is evident in the passionate way in which you espouse your views. May Allah Ta’ala richly reward you and shower His choicest blessings on you for your service towards Him. Ameen!

    May you remain blessed


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